TY  - BOOK
AU  - Smedes,Lewis B
TI  - Forgive and forget: healing the hurts we don't deserve 
SN  - 0060674083
AV  - BJ1476 .S64 1984
U1  - 234.5 
PY  - 1984///
CY  - San Francisco
PB  - Harper & Row
KW  - Forgiveness
N1  - PART I. The four stages of forgiving -- We hurt -- We hate -- We heal ourselves -- We come together -- Some nice things forgiving is not -- PART II. Forgiving people who are hard to forgive -- Forgiving the invisible person -- Forgiving people who do not care -- Forgiving ourselves -- Forgiving monsters -- Forgiving God -- PART III. How people forgive -- Slowly -- With a little understanding -- In confusion -- With anger left over -- A little at a time -- Freely, or not at all -- With a fundamental feeling -- PART IV. Why forgive? -- Forgiving makes life fairer -- Forgiving is a better risk -- Forgiving is stronger -- Forgiving fits faulty people
N2  - Explains and guides the reader step by step through the four stages of forgiveness: hurting, hating, healing, and reconciliation ; provides solid help for freeing ourselves from the burden of hurts we don't deserve and for achieving healhier relationships and peace of mind
ER  -