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_bM465w, 2004
100 1 _aMaxwell, John C.,
_d1947-
245 1 0 _aWinning with people :
_bdiscover the people principles that work for you every time /
_cJohn C. Maxwell.
246 1 3 _aPastor's study sermons
260 _aNashville, Tenn. :
_bNelson Books,
_cc2004.
300 _axviii, 275 p. ;
_c24 cm.
500 _aIncludes booklet: Pastor's Study sermons.
504 _aIncludes bibliographical references.
505 0 0 _tAcknowledgments --
_tIntroduction --
_g[pt. 1].
_tThe readiness question : are we prepared for relationships? --
_tThe lens principle : who we are determines how we see others --
_tThe mirror principle : the first person we must examine is ourselves --
_tThe pain principle : hurting people hurt people and are easily hurt by them --
_tThe hammer principle : never use a hammer to swat a fly off someone's head --
_tThe elevator principle : we can lift people up or take people down in our relationships --
_g[pt. 2].
_tThe connection question : are we willing to focus on others? --
_tThe big picture principle : the entire population of the world -- with one minor exception -- is composed of others --
_tThe exchange principle : instead of putting others in their place, we must put ourselves in their place --
_tThe learning principle : each person we meet has the potential to teach us something --
_tThe charisma principle : people are interested in the person who is interested in them --
_tThe number 10 principle : believing the best in people usually brings the best out of people --
_tThe confrontation principle : caring for people should precede confronting people --
_g[pt. 3].
_tThe trust question-can we build mutual trust? --
_tThe bedrock principle : trust is the foundation of any relationship --
_tThe situation principle : never let the situation mean more than the relationship --
_tThe Bob principle : when Bob has a problem with everyone, Bob is usually the problem --
_tThe approachability principle : being at ease with ourselves helps others be at ease with us --
_tThe foxhole principle : when preparing for battle, dig a hole big enough for a friend.
505 0 0 _g[pt. 4].
_tThe investment question -- are we willing to invest in others? --
_tThe gardening principle : all relationships need cultivation --
_tThe 101 percent principle : find the 1 percent we agree on and give it 100 percent of our effort --
_tThe patience principle : the journey with others is slower than the journey alone --
_tThe celebration principle : the true test of relationships is not only how loyal we are when friends fail, but how thrilled we are when they succeed --
_tThe high road principle : we go to a higher level when we treat others better than they treat us --
_g[pt. 5].
_tThe synergy question -- can we create a win-win relationship? --
_tThe boomerang principle : when we help others, we help ourselves --
_tThe friendship principle : all things being equal, people will work with people they like; all things not being equal, they still will --
_tThe partnership principle : working together increases the odds of winning together --
_tThe satisfaction principle : in great relationships, the joy of being together is enough --
_tFinal review of the people principles for Winning with People --
_tNotes --
_tAbout the author.
520 _aTools to improve your existing relationships as well as begin new ones.
530 _aAlso issued online.
650 0 _aInterpersonal relations
_xReligious aspects
_xChristianity.
650 0 _aInterpersonal communication
_xReligious aspects
_xChristianity.
650 0 _aInterpersonal relations.
650 0 _aInterpersonal communication.
776 0 8 _iOnline version:
_aMaxwell, John C., 1947-
_tWinning with people.
_dNashville, Tenn. : Nelson Books, c2004
_w(OCoLC)607611382
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